Sam I am is here today to relinquish and sustain all rocky road relationships, ex-breakups, or even potential crushes to pursue a positive approach to any range of issues.
Friday, June 24, 2011
Trust Issues
It's tough sometimes to live the dating life because it may seem like everythings perfect then as time wears out. Some connections wear out and it's sad to see them go. Doesn't one ponder whether that whole relationship was a waste of time? Well I'm here today to show that no relationship is a waste of time and either one takes and learns something about himself or the playing field. One should always take something out of a relationship, healthy or not. The main concept of each relationship, once looked beyond the looks and what actually thrives a relationship, is about trust and connection, or compatibility. To relate, I once went out with a girl that was a real thrill seeker, she was off the walls climbing walls, base-jumping, sky diving. Now this wasn't my suggested life style, obviously If I'm not daring as her, I might be concidered as a wuss to her due to the fact that I did not risk my life as equivalent as hers. Compatibility is key, but trust Is the main piece to the bermuda triangle of a successful relationship (connection, compatibility, and trust). Trust is something committed into the care of another. The ability to lose someones trust is as easy as sipping a glass of water. The point of each relationship, if one wants to maintain a sufficient one, then one needs to look back on the past relationships and come to the conclusion that even though the last relationship ended, atleast one goes up a higher step on the ladder of trustworthiness. Once trust is lost it Is hard to gain it back because of the fragility.
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Sam while on the topic of trust; how do one go about trusting a female he care about if that person have been lied to countless times?
@Anonymous 12:49 June 29, When someone is infatuated with someone else and they open up their Heart to them, but instead simply get lied to for instance, then one might still be stuck in the moment of infatuation and as soon as the good times start rolling again, the bad are forgotten. This is not healthy. If one's heart is not ready to move on after the untrustworthiness, then one has to realize he/she has something special here. Nobody wants to get played, but when one gets played and still has the desire to continue their relationship with their Partner, then one needs to make a pro/con list of whether or not this relationship is worth it. Sometimes love turns people blind, and one doesn't want to escape from the yellow brick road of love (even though there is untrustworthiness lurking between the pair). But due to the fact that love is in the air, there is a figurative spell on one's heart. If anything, take this into consideration of whether or not this relationship has any potential to move forwards rather than back (when trust is first lost). The best thing to do for a heart at times, is to let go. It may be tough, but the long-run will be tougher. Relationships throughout ones lifetime is like a marathon, but sometimes should be looked at as a 100 yard sprint instead.
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